Ceremony and Reception
SATURDAY, May 10, 2025
5:00 – 10:00 PM
The Thaxton
1009 Olive St
St. Louis, Missouri 63101
Details
Vibe
A careful balance between nostalgia and contemporary taste. The atmosphere is vibrant, yet refined, creating a memorable experience that transcends eras. The venue itself, with its architectural details and glamorous ambiance, sets the stage for an unforgettable celebration.
Attire
Cocktail attire with ties optional. Vintage styles are welcome, but not necessary. Showcase your personal style without the need for period costumes.
Get There
You have options! Take your pick from cars, rideshares, and even the light rail.
Parking
We have a lot reserved for our event, one block from the venue on the corner of 11th and Pine. We will provide a “parking pass” to put on your dashboard. You can grab your pass ahead of time at any of the pre-wedding events, or right before the ceremony at the Thaxton.
Schedule
5:00pm – Doors Open
5:30pm – Ceremony
6:00pm – Cocktail Hour
7:00pm – Chow Time
8:00 pm – Sing – Song, and Dance
10:00pm – Doors Close
10:30pm – After Party at the Tin Roof
If you’d like to catch us
Before and After the Big Day
Early Bird Bar Crawl
Soulard
Thursday, May 8th
5:3opm – 12:00am
For anyone in town early. Join us in Soulard for dinner and music at a few of our favorite places. Starting spot TBD.
Traveler Social
Drury Inn Union Station Lobby
Friday, May 9th
5:3opm – 7:00pm
Though the bride and groom can’t attend, you can meet up with other wedding guests at the hotel’s kickback (complimentary drinks and snacks for hotel guests).
Prelude Dinner
Il Buco Lounge
Friday, May 9th
6:0opm – 8:00pm
By invitation only.
Weekend Kick Off
Il Buco Lounge
Friday, May 9th
8:0opm – Midnight
All are invited to join us anytime after 8pm to party and set the tone for the weekend. There will be music and probably singing. 😉
Ceili Dance
St. Louis Irish Arts
5111 Southwest Ave
Saturday, May 10th
Around 9:30am
Join the bride and groom to learn traditional dances for an Irish social gathering. Easy to learn and fun for all.
Explore StL
The Hill in St. Louis
Saturday, May 10th
Before 5pm
It’s a town takeover! Check out the “Tour St. Louis” page for recommendations to explore on your own or with new friends.
Then meet us at the wedding!
After Party
Tin Roof
Saturday, May 10th
10:30pm – bedtime
Audra’s going to try really hard to stay awake.
Breakfast Rally
Drury Inn Union Station Lobby
Sunday, May 11th
9:30am – 11:00am
Join us for Hot Breakfast, included with your stay at The Drury. Others can purchase breakfast here for $10/plate, or just pop by to say hi.
Sunday Hangout -And Don’t forget it’s mother’s day!
TBD
Sunday, May 11th
11:30am – ??
Late flight? Fear of goodbyes? Need a place to take your mom? We’ll suggest a place for lunch in a fun area of StL. We’ll be hanging out in the neighborhood all afternoon.
All of the above events are optional, please don’t feel obligated to do it all. Make time to relax and enjoy the weekend on your schedule.
Locations
Let us answer some
Common Questions
How do I RSVP, and when is the deadline?
We’re requesting RSVPs by March 1st, 2025. It’s easiest to RSVP online (click the button at the top of this page), but you can also contact us directly.
Does your wedding have a theme?
Not entirely, but we’re leaning into things reflect our style and taste. The wedding venue is an art deco style speakeasy. You’ll also notice other influences from Irish culture, roleplaying games, and more that reflect the history of our relationship.
Am I allowed to bring my children?
We want to welcome your whole family to St. Louis, but due to space restrictions and type of venue we are unable to accommodate guests under the age of 18. Reach out to us (and see below) for info about childcare for the duration of the wedding and reception. All ages are welcome to any of events the before and after the big day.
Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
Please refer to your invitation to determine if we have saved a seat for you to bring another guest. The RSVP Form will also list who’s included on your invitation.
What childcare options are available this weekend?
If you are looking for childcare throughout the weekend, we recommend TLC for Kids for in-hotel and event childcare. Their staff are interviewed face-to-face and evaluated for childcare skills, knowledge, and philosophy. They also conduct thorough background checks and provide CPR & First Aid Training. Care.com may also offer great options.
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
All events will be held indoors. May in St. Louis is beautiful, with temps in the 50-70’s and lots of blooming flowers. Rain and thunderstorms are possible.
Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the wedding?
If you’d like, we encourage you to take pictures of the wedding and reception, while making sure to enjoy the moment. Afterward we’ll invite you to share them to a virtual photo album so we can see the night through your eyes. We will have a videographer present as well.
What type of food will be served?
We’ll be serving hors d’oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by a buffet-style sit-down dinner with a selection of meat and vegetarian options.
Are cocktails or other beverages available?
We’re hosting a standard open bar plus water and coffee stations throughout.
What if I have a dietary restriction?
You can share those with us on the RSVP form or contact us directly.
Where are people staying?
We’ve reserved a block of rooms at the Drury Inn at Union Station. Mention our names when reserving your room. We also recommend The Anged Arts Hotel as another option.
What’s the easiest way to get to the wedding?
St. Louis is a very car-dependent city and we recommend driving. The Thaxton is a 5-minute drive from the Drury Inn at Union Station and we’ll have reserved parking. Rideshares such as Uber/Lyft/Taxi are also readily available and a great option. The Metrolink Light Rail station next to the Drury Inn runs from Union Station to the 8th and Pine Station (about a 4 min walk to the venue). Last train from the station leaves at 12:00am.
Accessibility
The venue is made up of three floors, and there is elevator service to all three floors. The entrance is on the main floor and does not require stairs.
Where should I look for updates or last-minute changes?
We’ll update the website as things change. We suggest checking back closer to your travel day. If you provide an email or phone number during the RSVP process we’ll use that to notify you of any significant changes.
Whom should I contact with questions?
You are welcome to call/text Audra or Chase. You can also message us through our website.